According to the World Health Organization, COVID-19 is a pandemic. As such, many of us are being encouraged to self-isolate, to socially distance ourselves, to refrain from physically connecting with others. Amongst the anxiety and uncertainty, an opportunity has presented … Read More
When I speak to men about how they masturbate, I often notice a recurring theme regarding the way they touch themselves. Many men will masturbate with the mindset that they want to get something from their cock. They want an … Read More
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Driven by biological urges and hormonal changes in the body, the Ejaculatory Cycle is often felt as frustration, tension or anxiety. This is what the cycle looks like; (1) Feel the build up of sexual tense, frustration or anxiety, (2) … Read More
It is nearing the end of International Masturbation Month. If you’ve been celebrating the month, you might have used your hands celebrate yourself a few times this month as well. While our using our hands during self-pleasuring can be enjoyable, … Read More
You may have seen the beautiful artwork [swipe to see] comparing vocal chords and the vulva (from @luisaalexandre), bringing light to the connection between these areas of the female body, noting the body’s tendency to replicate and repeat (by @myorgasmiclife). … Read More
In ancient Roman religion and magic, the fascinus or fascinum was the embodiment of the divine phallus, often depicted as a winged phallus. The English word “fascinate” ultimately derives from the late 16th century Latin fascinat, in the sense “bewitch,” … Read More
🎨 @book.of.phallus.illustrations Just about every man – regardless of the actual size of his penis – worries about being too small. In fact, according to a 2008 study in the Journal of Health Psychology, men list the size of their … Read More
Golden rule: Touch your partner the way they want to be touched, not the way you want to be touched
When I receive messages like this, I remember how important this work is. Many men don’t have a framework for speaking about sex and sexuality. We’re often told how not to express our sexuality and what not to do. The … Read More