From Performance to Pleasure
Embark on a transformative journey to redefine masculinity, embrace holistic pleasure, and cultivate deeper connections. Experience the power of multiple non-ejaculatory orgasms, master your sexual energy, and share this profound intimacy with your partner.
A 6-week transformative journey to cultivate presence, redefine your relationship with pleasure, and elevate both your intimate and personal life
"If we hold back our energy to avoid feeling our sexual kinks, then we also hold back our deepest gifts." - David Deida
“I want to tell you how grateful I am for this journey. You had definitely a key role on my recent evolution. It keeps growing man. I feel more and more secure. My orgasm experience has had a spectacular change, thanks to the exercises that you have given me.”
Why Outperform A Porn Star?
Every time I introduce this course, I'm met with the same question: "Why 'Outperform A Porn Star'?"
Before diving into that, I'd like you to ponder on this:
Do you think porn stars are having great sex?
Some quotes from well known performers:
"If I am working with a girl, I start doing multiplication and long division in my head to keep an erection."
"Keep your dick hard... that's pretty much it."
Rocco 'The Italian Stallion' Siffredi
"We're treated more like a prop, rather than a co-star."
Aaron 'Small Hands' Thompson
"I bite my cheek or finger. Hard. Like really hard. Usually, the jolt of pain will dial down my erection a bit and I can sort of re-centre myself."
"Most of my days are spent desperately trying not to come while maintaining the facade that I am a Sex Olympian."
"I use a breathing technique I've developed over the years to keep my concentration and almost mute the sensation on my penis."
These statements reveal a stark truth: many of these men aren't truly relishing the act. Some even resort to self-inflicted pain. Isn't the essence of intimacy rooted in mutual pleasure and connection?
The course title is a playful nod to the misconceptions many men harbour about on-screen sex. It's easy to assume that porn showcases the epitome of sexual prowess. Yet, it's crucial to remember that it's a performance, often devoid of genuine mutual pleasure.
This course champions a pleasure-centric approach to intimacy, aiming for deeply fulfilling experiences. Imagine achieving multiple non-ejaculatory orgasms, experiencing full-bodied pleasure, and sharing heightened states of arousal with a partner. Such genuine experiences would already surpass the staged acts of many performers.
While the title is intentionally provocative, the course content shifts the focus from mere "performance" to profound explorations of pleasure, aligning with a more conscious and authentic approach to masculinity and intimacy.
Holistic Sexual Empowerment
Delve into a unique blend of academic insights and esoteric practices. This course offers a grounded, real approach that fosters a sacred relationship with your body and the world around you. Break free from societal norms and embrace a holistic understanding of male sexuality.
Deepened Intimacy & Connection
Prioritise genuine pleasure over mere performance. Learn techniques to cultivate deeper emotional and spiritual connections, both with yourself and your partner. Experience the profound transformation that comes from truly authentic intimacy.
Conscious Masculinity & Growth
Challenge limiting beliefs about masculinity and embark on a journey of personal evolution. Equip yourself with tools and knowledge to navigate challenges like premature ejaculation or erectile difficulties. Emerge not just as a better lover, but as a more conscious, evolved man.
Embark on a Pleasure-Positive Journey
Designed to be a
This course is structured as a 3-part process, consisting of (1) preparation work, (2) training exercises, and (3) game day practices. You'll get step-by-step instructions for deep sexual connections and heightened pleasure.
10 years worth of knowledge
I have been practicing and teaching ejaculation choice, multiple orgasms, jelqing, tantric yoga, and pleasure-oriented sex for almost 10 years and I feel deeply called to share these life-changing practices with more men.
In addition to solo practices that will shift your mindset around sex and pleasure, you'll be given a series of practices to do with a current or future partner(s) to ensure you have incredible sexual experiences.
The following charts show psychometrically sound quantitative before/after data from the men who have completed this 6-week course. On the first and last day, I ask men to indicate their response to the following statements from Štulhofer, Buško and Brouillard’s (2010) New Sexual Satisfaction Scale by selecting the option they thought best described their experience (extremely satisfied, very satisfied, moderately satisfied, etc…)
Q: My focus/concentration during sexual activity
Q: The pleasure I provide to my partner
Q: My partner's emotional opening up during sex
What you’ll Learn
Learn how male sexuality is portrayed in the media and how this affects your sex life. Unlearn the mainstream narrative of men’s sexual experiences. Overcome your fear of heightened states of pleasure. Find your “WHY” for doing this work. Develop presence both in and out of the bedroom. Learn the fundamentals of ejaculation retention. Learn foundational breathing practices.
Learn to accept and manage your emotions and energy. Introduce edging and Kegel exercises into your self-pleasuring. Discuss energy levels and testosterone. Increase your physical and energetic capacity for sexual energy. Develop confidence both in and out of the bedroom. Overcome the downward cycle of performance anxiety. Learn how to wake up your body’s response to pleasure.
Introduce herbs, adaptogens and aphrodisiacs with Joel Camp. Basic recipes for supporting your sexual energy and replenishing after an ejaculation. Foundations of sex magic and tips for how to practice. Learn the difference between masturbation and self-pleasure. Introduce the practice of Porn Yoga and how to change your porn viewing habits. Create and respect boundaries.
Introduce the chakras and energy centres. Foundations of sexual polarity. Unhealthy and healthy masculine and feminine qualities. Identify your passion and cultivate it to become a passionate lover. Learn about ritual and why it is important with Paisley Heart. How to integrate ritual with your self-pleasuring and with your sexual partners. Discover the seven elements of erotic ritual.
Male anatomy of arousal: Perineum and frenulum stimulation for multiple orgasms. Cultivate empathy and translate this into intimacy. Learn to communicate healthily and develop sexual empathy. Work through the 9 steps of effective communication. Introduce prostate stimulation, including massage, play, and orgasms. Develop curiosity around pleasure and your sex life.
Learn to create sexual safety and develop awareness around receptivity to help you partner open up with Kiki Maree. Briefly introduce the menstrual cycle as it relates to sexuality. Being the penetrative partner and how to sexually dominate. Female anatomy of arousal: Vulva and vagina. Learn to be sexually spontaneous, creative, and flexible. Introduce archetypal sexual genres and practices for each one.
Begin your transformation
Hear from Men Like You
Thanks for the amazing journey of self discovery. You provided so much amazing information, insight, inspiration, knowledge and techniques. You provided a structure and a platform that felt open, yet safe, and strong, yet sensitive. I’ve been amazed at how much I learned. My partner and I are excited to continue the journey. Thanks for helping us begin this very important work.
What a phenomenal course this was! Cam’s knowledge and passion shone through every week, this was incredibly informative and structured very well in my opinion. The home play/exercises we were invited to complete was a gradual build, instead of being overwhelmed by so much info. Then the guests that were brought on to impart their wisdom were also superb teachers in their respective fields. I just wish I had have learnt this at school! Highly recommend to all men out there, it’s a great course that gives a valuable and different perspective to what I’ve learnt growing up
I’ve never met anyone who knows Tantra, neo-Tantra and sexuality as well as Cam does – his knowledge is awesome! I’ve learnt so much from him! You’d be hard-pressed to find a better teacher than Cam. I can highly recommend Cam’s course. His lessons were excellent, the course notes were very clear but also quite scholarly, and there were even regular teaching emails! I think that this course is excellent and I highly recommend it to everyone.
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Your instructor: Cam Fraser
I am Australia's Leading Men's Sex Coach, certified by the World Association of Sex Coaches. I'm also the current Deputy Chair for the Society of Australian Sexologists.
While I've got all the academic credentials, I have also overcome my own sexual issues, from relying on alcohol to feel sexually confident to erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation. I know what it takes.
Dive into Authentic Intimacy
Very happy that our paths have crossed
We normally had sex once a week and I was riddled with anxiety, shame, early ejaculation and unable to maintain an erection many times. After the first week of no sex, we had sex 3 times outside and it blew my mind. We have continued with the process and now I do not have the fear and anxiety about early ejaculation or loss of erection. We are having great sex for 30-40 min.
United States of America
I thought I was good at sex
What the course revealed to me is that I was still chronically over-giving in the bedroom and I was afraid to actually embrace my own pleasure as a man. I had always believed there was a cap on pleasure for men, and so I settled. Cam blew that idea out of the water and showed me how to not only connect with and expand my sexual energy, but also how to reconnect with my whole body as a place of pleasure.
This course is both for men who have a sexual partner(s) and men who are single. You will learn masturbation and self-pleasure techniques as well as partnered exercises to use with your future sexual partner, whether that is a casual or long-term relationship. Not only that, you will also learn how to communicate your sexual desires and improve other areas of your life, improving your confidence and helping you attract a partner.
This course does require you to put in the effort to practice as well as watch the video content. There is about an hour of video content each week and I recommend setting aside a minimum of 10 minutes per day for practices. There are no quick fixes to becoming a great lover. Just like an athlete, you need to prepare, train and show up on game day. It sounds simple, but if you value improving your sex life, you’ll commit the time needed to improve it.
Enrolment is open! The course is self-paced. You can begin the course at any time and work through the content at your own leisure.
Upon enrolment, you will be directed to the Outperform a Porn Star Welcome Page. There, you’ll have access to the 6 weeks worth of content via Teachable, broken down into 6 units. Each unit contains 1-2 hours of video training. You’ll also have access to a private, members-only Facebook group as well as a 6-week training schedule, including additional written and video resources. You will also receive bonus videos about Tantric massage and Tantric yoga at the end of the course.
Yes! I offer a 3-month interest free payment plan.
This course is intended to be a complete and comprehensive introduction to all the practices. No previous experience is necessary. The depth of the information is also suitable for experienced practitioners and men who already have a knowledge of the topics covered. Everything is explained in detail and is delivered in a step-by-step manner.
Absolutely! This course is open to anyone who has a penis. Some content my be oriented toward heterosexual men but all the practices and principles in this course are applicable to all men, regardless of sexual orientation. I’ve shared these teachings with many gay and bisexual men who have found them to be very valuable.
Embark on Your Journey to Enhanced Sexuality and Deeper Connections