The Man SAR

A specialty sensitivity training for sexuality professionals, therapists, and counsellors who work with men.

Being a man is complex, layered, and deep.

Are you ready to serve men as men?


You need offer nuanced support and understanding for men's experience as men in 2024


You need to be aware of the specific communities that target men and the social forces behind them


You need to be ready to hold space for men to navigate their reinvention through conscious choice

What are your values, attitudes, and beliefs?

To best serve your clients, you need to know your biases. The Man SAR is designed to elicit your deeply held beliefs related to men and masculinity, so that you can know where you stand and who you can (and can't) serve.

  • Sexuality Professionals
  • Therapists
  • Coaches
  • Counsellors

Workshop content

How the Man SAR works

The Man SAR takes place live over 5 days on Zoom. Participants can join from anywhere in the world.


Media and Guest Speakers

The Man SAR uses a mix of media and guest speakers to expose participants to a wide variety of influences at work in the lives of men.


Small Group Process

Process your experience in real time in small groups led by trained, experienced facilitators who are themselves clinicians.


Multimodal Learning

Interact with your colleagues through a variety of activities that allow you to tap into different learning styles and types of emotional processing.

Gain a Competitive Edge

Set yourself apart in your private practice by developing deep, specialist knowledge in men's work. The Man SAR goes deep in these areas.

  • Online communities for men
  • Men, sexuality, and sexual pleasure
  • Social forces that affect men

Why Train With Us?

Take the best from the Sexual Attitude Reassessment & Restructuring (SAR) experience to energize and expand your capacity as a clinician working with men.
Sexuality Professionals
  •  Experience men's sexuality grounded in authenticity and pleasure.
  • Help your clients navigate social and dating skills development with greater nuance.
  • Quickly recognise and understand subculture lingo related to men and sexuality.
  • Define your limits of practice in line with your values.
Counsellors and Therapists
  • Understand the potent intersection of sexuality and gender identity for men.
  • Gain rich context for understanding the communities your men clients are in.
  • Enhance your training in human sexuality to complement your practice.
  • Increase your effectiveness working with parents or families by understanding how teenagers and young men are learning about masculinity today.

 get to know us 

The Man SAR Leaders

Sex Coach and Sexologist

Cam Fraser, GradDipSxlgy

Cam's work integrates scientifically validated information about sexual health with sacred sexuality teachings. He helps men go beyond surface-level sex and into full-bodied, pleasure-oriented sexual experiences free of anxiety or shame.

Sex Coach and Sociologist

Sarah Martin, MA

Sarah Martin runs a sexual wellness business that helps people going through life transitions explore who they are as sexual beings. In her one on one work, she helps men live sex-foward, pleasure-focused, desire-led lives.

Feedback from SAR Participants

A powerful experience 

This is a powerful experience, it’s more than just about learning, it’s about confronting our own biases so that we can consciously prevent them from negatively impacting our work.

Charles Dubois
Men's Sex Coach

The SAR expanded my perspective

The SAR expanded my perspective on the pressures men face. I gained valuable insight into the complex interplay between societal influences, personal beliefs, and sexual attitudes.

Mat Wakeham
Movement Therapist

Tickets and Pricing

The Man SAR has a max capacity of 28 participants. There are 3 ticket types:

regular admission




Most participants will book a regular admission ticket. As a rule of thumb, book this ticket if you will claim The Man SAR as a business expense.

student admission




For current full-time or part-time students. You will be asked to provide the name of your institution at check out.

bursary admission




A limited number of bursary places are available based on the available community fund. There are always at least 2 places. Email


Deepen your understanding of men and masculinity