I'm Cam Fraser
I help men go beyond surface-level sex and into full-bodied, self-expressed, pleasure-oriented sexual experiences free of anxiety or shame.
I am a Professional Sex Coach, certified with the World Association of Sex Coaches, as well as a Sexologist, and the current Deputy Chair of the Society of Australian Sexologists.
During my late teenage years, I had an uneasy relationship with my sexuality. Marred by insecurities and perceived inadequacies, I had difficulty fully connecting with my sexual partners. I relied heavily on alcohol to inhibit my fears regarding the expression of my sexual desires and cannot recall many times when I was sober during a sexual experience with another person.
I was overly concerned about my sexual “performance,” to the point where that anxiety affected my ability to get and maintain an erection when with a sexual partner or to last for a satisfying period of time – of course, the alcohol didn’t help with this. To compensate, I focused my energy almost exclusively on oral and digital sex, thinking that if I could make up for my lack of penetrative sex by giving my partners pleasure and orgasms by other means, it would take some of pressure off me to “perform.” In a way, this worked. But in other ways, it didn’t.
I wasn’t dealing with the cause of my insecurities and dysfunction, I was applying a band-aid solution that temporarily masked the problem. This resulted in me actively avoided sexual experiences and unceremoniously rejecting the advances of sexual partners. Eventually, this led to mental health issues.
Overcoming these things – becoming comfortable with my sexuality and sexual energy, becoming a confident yet vulnerable lover, becoming clear about my desires and experiences – took time. It wasn’t a “one pill quick fix” or “one weird trick” solution peddled by many “authorities” on sexuality. It took work. I studied psychology, philosophy, massage, Yoga, Tantra (both Classical and Neo), sexology and sacred sexuality in order to better understand my body, my mind, and my sexual self. I learned from many teachers, from many different traditions. And, it took me several years before I felt comfortable teaching others.
As American writer Richard Bach famously said, “We teach best what we most need to learn.” This was certainly true for me. I most needed to learn sexual education and healing, which is what I taught. As professor Howard G. Hendricks has said, “You teach what you know, but you reproduce what you are.” This has been the current phase of my journey, practicing what I preach and fully embodying, fully living the knowledge I’ve acquired.
Sex Coaching sessions, conducted online via Zoom. These sessions are about overcoming your sexual difficulties and become a sexual leader.
My signature 6-week online course for men, called "Outperform A Porn Star." This course guides you from preparation through training and finally to game day.
A comprehensive catalog of masterclasses, including Pleasure 101, Prostate Play, and Tantric Yoga. You'll find something about men and sex to pique your curiosity.
I have had the privilege of teaching many wonderful and diverse people in my working career; people with talent, people with ethics, people with personality and people with dedication to helping others but rarely do I see all these qualities in one person. Cameron has all these qualities and more. Cameron’s ability to learn quickly and hold space for his group peers and clients is exceptional. Cameron has a gift that I rarely see in the healing industry and a genuine desire to assist and help others in their personal growth. Cameron is one of life’s true Gentlemen and I have absolutely no hesitation in recommending him.
the sanctuary of ananda
It is not often that I leave a yoga practice feeling as inspired as I did from Cam’s unique Kama Yoga offering. Cam’s mindblowingly broad experiences with ancient practices across the globe are interwoven in his authentic and accessible teachings. He shares wisdom beyond his years in a way that is relevant to the modern western world. Highly, highly recommend that you check out his offerings!
I have had the pleasure of having Cam run his wonderful classes at Siddhi Space. Cam has designed a unique fusion of asanas that incorporate both kundalini and tantric principles. Cam is also highly professional in his work, punctual and reliable. As a teacher, he infuses his classes with thought, love and care. Cam is always welcome in our studio.
my unique approach
Your Three Sacred Relationships
It is my philosophy that all of your experiences are governed by three relationships; with your body and self, with your consciousness and deep self, and with your environment and the people around you. When these relationships are starved of respect and compassion – what I refer to as Sacredness – you can develop somatic, sexual, and spiritual dysfunctions.
Sex Coaching sessions, conducted online via Zoom, are about releasing old thought patterns preventing you from attracting your ideal partner, or enjoying your own sexual self, and moving you towards more sexual fulfilment by integrating the connection between your body, mind, and relationships with others.
My background is psychology, sexology, counselling, Yoga, and Tantra. In each unique and transformational session, I integrate a variety of Yogic teachings coupled with modalities such as nutrition, sacred sexuality, gestalt therapy, somatic and process-oriented psychology, and body psychotherapy to meet you where you are at in your individual situation
Qualifications and Experience
As a Certified Professional Sex Coach, Certified Sexologist, and former Tantric Yoga Teacher, my work integrates scientifically validated, medically accurate information about sexual health, with sacred sexuality teachings from the mystery traditions.
- Graduate Diploma of Sexology from Curtin University
- Diploma of Counselling from Open Colleges
- Bachelor of Arts in Psychology from Clarke University
- Love Bites Respectful Relationships Program Training with NAPCAN
- From Gender Dysphoria to Gender Euphoria with Relationships Australia
- Sexual & Gender Diversity & Mental Health with WAAMH
- Nuts & Bolts of Sexual Health with SHQ
- Relationship Education with SECCA
- Spiritual Sexual Shamanic Training with ISTA
- Unleash Your Pleasure Power with Eyal Matsilah
- Master Tantric Sex Program with Sapphire
- Tantra Touch with Psalm Isadora
- Discovering The Yoniverse with Elise Savaresse
- Hatha Yoga Teacher Training with Aura Wellness
- Yoga Exercises Course with ALISON
- Shamanic Personal Development with ELIYAH
- An Mo Tantric Massage Training with Cathy Wood
- Traditional Usui Reiki Level I with Roger Weston