Because I speak about male sexuality, I get asked all the time about porn usage. A lot of my colleagues, particularly the more spiritually inclined, tend to lump all porn together and call it all bad. They’re anti-porn. Some of … Read More

I’ve spoken with men who are doing NoFap or practicing semen retention and believe that a wet dream is bad because it ends their streak of consecutive days without ejaculating. This has always intrigued me. Wet dreams, also called nocturnal … Read More

​If you’re interested in experimenting with ways to help yourself last longer, here is a pretty unique one. I’m not an orthodontist, so take this with a grain of salt. This is just what my understanding is. You may not … Read More

Our society holds expectations and judgements about sex, which creates sex-related biases. One example is the sexual over perception bias, whereby men are more likely to overestimate a woman’s sexual interest (Bendixen, 2014). However, even though men have a tendency … Read More

Priapism is a medical term describing a condition in which a penis remains erect for hours in the absence of stimulation or after stimulation has ended (Podolej & Babcock, 2017). In most cases, the persistent erection is also painful. The … Read More

Take a moment to think about how you wank. I’ll wait… If you conjured up an image of yourself sitting in front of a computer screen, cock in one hand, mouse in the other, clicking on a new video from … Read More

Just about every man – regardless of the actual size of his penis – worries about being too small. In fact, according to a 2008 study in the Journal of Health Psychology, men list the size of their penises among … Read More

What’s your partner’s relationship with your ejaculation? Something I encourage couples to do is experiment with intentionally not ejaculating when they’re being sexual. I invite them to take ejaculation off the table for a few weeks. I ask them to … Read More

🎨 Andy Warhol 1) Spend longer times in heightened states of arousal when masturbating. 2) Breathe into your diaphragm. 3) When you’re close to cumming, change to a new sex position. 4) Create more safety and comfort with your partner. … Read More

In her 1991 journal article, anthropologist Emily Martin examined how gender roles are projected onto reproductive biology, portraying eggs as passive and sperm as active. Gynaecologist Gro Nylander exemplifies this in an excerpt from her 2002 handbook on pregnancy, writing: … Read More