​I’ve been in plenty of situations where a group of men are talking about sex. Something I noticed, especially when I was younger, is that many men boast about their sex lives to appear more manly. Men tell sexual jokes … Read More

In case you missed it, here is a little snap shot of peoples’ attitudes toward sex toys, taken from my story. Of course, this is only a single binary choice question which lacks nuance and the sample size is relatively … Read More

I’ve noticed some online men’s communities glorify bodybuilding. It’s common knowledge that bodybuilding usually goes hand in hand with steroid use, especially in competitive environments. I’ll preface what I’m about to say by conceding that the long-term impact of high … Read More

​Straight men, stop thinking that if you like anal play that means your gay. Firstly, it’s 2020, homophobia is not a good look on you. Secondly, anal pleasure doesn’t automatically make you gay. Your prostate doesn’t have a gender. If … Read More

​Are you really a Tantric lover or do you just have an unacknowledged kink for crystals and incense?

I’m looking at you, fellahs! @drnerdlove said this on our podcast together over a year ago, it has stuck with me ever since.

“This is man’s biggest sexual problem: his inability to let himself be really carried away by sensuality. Man is afraid of letting himself go. In his struggle to dominate, he feels that every sexual pleasure is a threat and he … Read More

If your partner has a penis and you’re looking for a novel way to touch them, try massaging their perineum, the skin in between the testicles and the anus. The sponge-like regions of erectile tissue in the penis actually extend … Read More

As I’ve shared before, my partner and I had a child this year. On this journey of conception, we’ve found a lot of conscious conception knowledge pertaining to her, hardly anything for me. I would like to contribute to the … Read More