​Golden rule: Touch your partner the way they want to be touched, not the way you want to be touched

When I receive messages like this, I remember how important this work is. Many men don’t have a framework for speaking about sex and sexuality. We’re often told how not to express our sexuality and what not to do. The … Read More

Orgasm Denial. Orgasm denial falls under the umbrella of orgasm control. Essentially, you’re not allowed to orgasm, either at all, for a specified period or until you complete a task. Orgasm denial can be a done alone, but it also … Read More

I’ve spoken before about how you can intentionally use your ejaculation as a clearing tool to let go off emotional and energetic baggage you’ve been holding on to which has been weighing you down. You may feel lighter after an … Read More