@flowsofly I recently chatted with Parish Blair (@sexyspirittv) about oral sex. She helped me reflect on my own perceptions and offered a great reframe. I was introduced to oral sex in my mid-teens, before intercourse. There was a sense of … Read More

The first erection. It is common for newborn babies to get an erection. Even before the moment of birth, ultrasound scans have shown fetuses with fully formed erections (Sherer et al., 1990). According to one study, fetal erections occur mostly during REM sleep … Read More

Men just roll over and go to sleep after sex, right? Well, one reason why men may be reluctant to cuddle after sex is a phenomenon known as postcoital dysphoria (PCD). This isn’t exclusive to men, as PCD has also … Read More

​I speak a lot about the intricacies leading up to and during sex, but what are you doing after sex has finished? Contrary to what porn would have you believe, sex doesn’t finish at the “money shot.” And, unlike what … Read More