I’ve spoken before about the language we as a society use when talking about penises and how it paints a picture regarding our perception of penises and the people who have them. From words like “pole,” “hammer” and “pipe” to … Read More

I have a theory. My theory is that the way you poop impacts your sex life. Hear me out. The way many of us poop is incorrect. If you’ve ever seen the hit viral video ”This unicorn changed the way … Read More

It is natural for erection firmness to wax and wane throughout a sexual experience. Many of us expect a penis to be hard the whole time we’re being sexual, but this is sometimes unrealistic, especially during longer sexual encounters. If … Read More

Yes, testosterone is connected to libido but it’s not solely responsible for it. For example, dopamine, cortisol and estradiol all impact libido. Also, women can have very high sex drives but produce hardly any testosterone. What this means is that … Read More

Blue Balls. I get asked about blue balls a lot. Men ask me about it when I discuss semen retention with them. Women ask me about it when their partner uses it as an excuse to pressure them for sex. … Read More