Our world has set up penile-vaginal intercourse (PVI), specifically, as the “default” sexual activity – as the one kind of sex the majority of people will tend to think of when someone says “I had sex.” This was definitely the … Read More

Many men ask me about ejaculation control and state that they’re somewhat familiar with Mantak Chia’s 3-finger, Million Dollar Point technique. Something I always make abundantly clear in my work with men is the dangers of using such techniques. The … Read More

Everyone has stories about men’s sexuality, including women. Here’s something for the women who have messaged me. These are general and will not apply to every man: (1) We respond to praise. We aren’t sex-crazed animals with no self-consiousness surrounding … Read More

Women experience more pleasure than men. An often made claim is that the clitoris has 8000+ nerve endings, double the amount found in the penis. The source of this claim is Lowry, Morrione, and Lowry’s 1976 book, entitled “The Clitoris.” … Read More